Sylvia Carter, 84, of Cedar Rapids, passed away Thursday, December 5, 2019, at the Dennis and Donna Oldorf Hospice House of Mercy in Hiawatha. Gathering of Family and Friends: 4-7 p.m. Wednesday, December 11, 2019, at Stewart Baxter Funeral & Memorial Services, Cedar Rapids. Private Family Inurnment: Linwood Cemetery, Cedar Rapids.
Survivors include her husband of 63 years, David; children, Blair of Texas, Grant of Cedar Rapids, and Neal Carter of Cedar Rapids; grandchildren, Amber Carter, and Curtis (Alexa) Winsor of Virginia; great-grandchildren, Ayden Vaughn and Alena Harris and Theodore Winsor; brother, Arthur of Cedar Rapids; sister-in-law, Jenni Fauchier; and many extended family members and friends. She was preceded in death by her parents.
Sylvia Ann Svaldi was born May 20, 1935, to Arthur and Verna (Mitchener) Svaldi in Oskaloosa. When Sylvia was just an infant, the family moved to Manchester, Iowa. Sylvia lived the typical life of a small town child, riding bicycles on dirt streets and playing on the banks of the dry run creek near their home. Arthur owned and operated the Standard Auto Parts and auto repair shop in Manchester and was later operated by her brother, Arthur Lynn.
Sylvia attended Manchester High School, where she met David Carter. They graduated in 1954. She attended what was then Iowa State Teachers College for one year and then joined her husband-to-be, David, in Iowa City. She attended the University of Iowa for one year and then began working for the University as a secretary to Dr. Davies in East Hall. Sylvia and David were married in Danforth Chapel on the University campus on Labor Day weekend in 1956. Many noted how hot it was on that weekend, particularly in light of the fact the chapel was not air conditioned. To earn extra money, Sylvia typed term papers for University students at 10 cents a page, setting up her Royal typewriter on a card table in their apartment living room. Sylvia was a skilled typist, a talent she used during her entire career as both a legal and medical transcriptionist.
The young couple soon moved to Cedar Rapids so David could take a job at KCRG radio and television. Four years later, their first son Blair was born then sons, Grant and Neal. Sylvia was a stay-at-home mom for several years while the boys were small. She took part in PTA activities and conducted Story Hour class for pre-kindergarten children at Erskine school.
During those years she met her friend Pat Novak and they spent time as young moms walking the family dogs and shopping often. With another friend and neighbor, Mary Lou Zenor, she spent time on home projects, especially making Christmas decorations and other craft works.
To satisfy a desire to begin working again, she worked at home transcribing the notes of Linn County court reporter, Bob Carroll. Later she took a job at the Linn County Psychiatric Clinic in downtown Cedar Rapids as a medical transcriptionist. That facility was renamed the Abbe Center for Community Health and moved to the Fillmore Center. She worked there for 30-plus years until she was nearly 80, well past the normal age for retirement. Unfortunately, memory issues worked their way into her life and she was forced to retire. A long, slow decline began as she was diagnosed with Alzheimer's Disease. It robbed her of her memory and her bright spirit of life and eventually took her life.
Many knew Sylvia as a happy and chipper person towards anyone with whom she came in contact. The family asks that you take a moment to remember her that way and not for what the dementia/Alzheimer's took from her.
If you desire, donations in her name may be made to the Dennis and Donna Oldorf Hospice House of Mercy or the Mercy Medical Center Foundation.
The family would like thank the staff at Abbe Center. Sylvia's job there for her working career was a joyful and fulfilling time for her. We also would like to especially thank Amanda Pins and the staff at the Mercy Memory Clinic, Palliative Care Social Worker Dana Andersen, Kathy Good at the Mercy Family Caregivers Center. Special thanks go to everyone at the Hospice House of Mercy. Our thanks also to everyone in the Mercy Emergency Department and Area Ambulance Service. Without all of them this journey, particularly its final days, would have been much more difficult. They provided care and compassion in many different ways during this difficult time.
I worked at the Abbe Center in the 90’s and found Sylvia to be such a gracious and kind person. Please know that my thoughts are with her family at this time. Dawn Larson
Dawn, thanks for your thoughts and concern and remembering mom as she was in earlier years. She dearly loved her job at Abbe. A lot of the older Abbe staff were able to stop by visitation so it was good to catch up with some of them. Thanks, Grant (middle son).
I worked with Sylvia when I was a senior in high school in 1985..few years I was hired by a family to be a nanny only to find out Sylvia was our mutual friend. I’ve enjoy having breakfast with the Carter’s and the Zenor’s when I come home from Massachusetts for a visit. Sylvia was a wonderful person inside and out. Always a huge smile on her face! Fly with the angels 👼
Dear Meridith, thanks for your thought and concern. Zenor’s have been life long friends of the family. I recall mom talking of you. I think you started at Abbe as an Office Education student if I recall correctly. Thanks, Grant (middle son).
I worked with Sylvia when I started at Abbe. She took great pride in her work and she was very good at it. She had many interests outside of work, too. I admired her energy and her positive spirit and her zest for life. She was one of a kind. Brenda Hollinger
Brenda, thanks for your thoughts and concern. Mom had a lot of interests, especially in her younger years. She did a lot of gardening and craft work when we were kids. Thank you for remembering her as she was before the disease took so much from her. Grant (middle son)
I had the pleasure of working with Sylvia when I worked at the Abbe Mental Health Center. She was an “institution” in the sense that if you needed to know something, you would go to Sylvia. She was always willing to help and was such a nice person. I send my prayers to the family at the loss of this very special person. May her memory be a Blessing. Toni Neta
Dear Toni, thanks for stopping by the visitation and for your thoughts and concern. Mom gave it a good fight over the past few years. Thanks for remembering her as she was, not what the disease took from her. Grant (middle son).
Dear Dave, Don & I remember seeing the two of you at HyVee for breakfast and of course all of your photography at Mercy. I was quite surprised to see that Sylvia worked for Dr. Davies in East Hall at the university. He was my step dad! He was widowed, my mother became his new bride in 1972 and I remember hearing about Sylvia but never made the connection! He retired and then died many years ago. Approximately 1985 when he died. With respect, Don & Mary Anne Nelson
Dave: I was saddened to read Sylvia’s obituary. I so enjoyed meeting her when I worked at Mercy and you two were able to attend a gathering I had at the house on Linden with band and food one summer back in the late 70’s or early 80’s. Gingie (McCray) Hunstad
Dave, Blair, Grant and Family, So very sorry to learn of Sylvia’s passing. She was always a pleasant person and liked by everyone. We have lost a good woman in all respects. Our prayers will be said for all of you. Most sincerely, Mike and Sylvia Carr Manchester, Iowa
Mike & Sylvia, thanks for your thoughts. Mom gave it a good fight the past few years. Unfortunately we’re losing our connection with the town of Manchester as the grandparents have passed. It was sort of our home away from home as we grandkids grew up. Thanks, Grant (middle son).
I worked with Sylvia for 12 years at Abbe Center. She made my job easy and could always read my mind in my transcriptions. She will be remembered for her knowledge and upbeat attitude. Prayers for comfort and healing to all her family and friends.
Amy, thanks for your thoughts and concern. Mom dearly loved her job there at Abbe. Unfortunately age has a way of catching up with all of us. Thanks, Grant (middle son).
I had the pleasure of working with Sylvia when I worked at the ABBE Center.. she was always always there to help with anything she could.. the plants at the ABBE were oh do abundant due to Sylvias dedication to taking care of them.. Sylvia was a pleasure to be around and will be missed dearly..my deepest condolences to her family at this difficult time..
Terrie, thanks for your thoughts and concern. Unfortunately age catches up with all of us. Mom gave it a good fight the past 4-5 years. Remember her as she was, not what the disease took from her. I helped mom plant a good chunk of the Abbe gardens out front. Thanks, Grant (middle son).
I worked with Sylvia at the Abbe Center for about 10 years. She was a great lady. So sweet and kind. She was always willing to help in many ways. She will be missed. My prayers and thoughts are with her family.
Mary, thanks for your thoughts. I’m sure being right there seated next to mom you got to know each other well. Thanks for remembering her as she was and not what the disease took from her in later years. She totally loved her job there at Abbe.
Dave and Sylvia’s wedding was the first wedding I can ever remember attending. I had a lace dress and new patent leather shoes. I have fond memories of spending weekends on the fold out couch. One one visit, we made the first and only baked Alaska I have ever had. It was always great fun on the weekends home too. Mama seemed to try to make something everybody liked. Syl was particularly fond of fried chicken, as I recall, but NOT of cold picnics at Bixby or on mushrooming excursions. It was interesting to see how may family and my husband’s family intersected intersected from his grandparents’ grocery on Center Point Road, to running to Bob and Jean or Marie Lynch at Mercy or HyVee. I will cherish the memory of our last Chinese dinner, although it was not at The Dragon, on Memorial Weekend, 2018.
Hi Jenni, Thanks for the basket of plants. I have them at home and will tend to them and hopefully won’t immediately kill them! Thanks for your thoughts. We’re glad you didn’t take a chance with the weather and drive all that way. We had a toned down service with just the visitation per what we think mom would have wanted. Sometime I’ll try to email you to get that in my email list. Dad should be ok. Grant
Sylvia was a great coworker at Abbe Center. Positive, bright, upbeat, professional. In her travels she always brought back the little soap and shampoo bottles from her hotel room that were forwarded to people in need. Prayers to her family for their loss.
Theresa, thanks for stopping by and for the good chat about your mom’s pies. I knew your mom a little from her nursing days in the O.R. area. The pies were great. Thanks for remembering mom as she was. Grant ( middle son).
Sylvia was so kind and fun to be around. Thank you Grant for letting me get to know your family when we moved into the neighbor on Knoll St. My heart and prayers go out to you all.
Penny, thanks for stopping by and good to catch up. It’s hard to catch up in 15 minute for nearly 40 years. Grant
We will always remember Sylvia. she always came to our Taco John’s for over 20 some years, even brought her husband David in, we all knew her order, Sylvia really liked that! Sylvia from all of us here, we loved you too! Diana, Pat, Paul & Kathy (Taco John’s)
Dear Diana, Pay, Paul and Kathy. Thanks for your thoughts and concern. Mom loved her years stopping by with Linda Crowley and Marty Zobl for lunch when she was still working and then after retirement. Thanks for remembering mom as she was and not what the dementia took from her. Grant (middle son)
I worked with Sylvia at Abbe Center, and also saw her when I attended Wellington Heights Neighborhood Association meetings. We would exchange advice on plants, clippings, and seeds …echinacea is still going strong! I’ll remember her every time it blooms…
MIchele, thanks for your thoughts. Mom enjoyed her years working the Wellington gardens with Jill Jones and Sara Todd.
I met Sylvia in 1964 when I was hired by Dave at KCRG. She embodied the word vivacious. Her smile was infectious and used often and behind it, her eyes signaled a pixie’s sense of humor — wry yet always kindly. I know she was a great mother and wife, including ‘volunteer service’ as a sometimes den mother to various members of the motley crew that comprised the KCRG newsroom — including me.