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Pauline O'Donnell

April 3, 1924 ~ November 21, 2020

Polly O'Donnell was born to Forest Moore and Theresa (Bender) Moore on April 3, 1924, in Keswick, Iowa. Her father died tragically a few months after she was born and her mother discovered that she was unable to provide for her and brought Polly to her parents who raised her in an outstanding climate of selfless love and devotion to family and God---which she came to model in her own family. Although raised until high school, in the Armah community a couple of miles from Deep River, Iowa, she found plenty to keep her busy on the family farm. She moved with her grandparents to Marengo where she began high school and played basketball at Marengo High School. She met Mell O'Donnell while attending high school, and after high school moved to Cedar Rapids and rented a room close to St Patrick Catholic Church and Quaker Oats where she went to work. Soon after that, Mell, moved here too, and they wed and started a family on February 20, 1943. They had nine children-six boys and three girls. Home life had always been one of Polly's greatest joys. What the family lacked in material things was never the focal point of home. The simple chores of being a housewife and a mother were performed with the most genuine love imaginable; as if she were setting the stage for a huge production. and all acts of love signified the oneness of our family unit and the great majesty with which she served us! Everything she did was majestic! No task was too great or too small. At about 2:30 p.m. she would begin baking either a 'made from scratch' chocolate cake; cherry pie or our cookie favorites, whose aroma would waft through the neighborhood as we approached the front door after school. Once home, the boys enjoyed shooting hoops, until the call for supper came. We would see a very tempting well- prepared meal as each of us filed in from outside after some after-school playtime. Mom would send them to wash up, sometimes change their shirts as they had given way to visible grass-stains; and comb their hair before coming to the table which began with grace. After supper and dishes were done--we said the family rosary. Then off to the basement to wash another day's laundry and hang it on basement clotheslines to dry overnight. If it were the night of a storm sometime between bedtime and dawn, we would feel drops of holy water sprinkled on our heads during the night by our guardian angel, Our Mom! Polly's survivors include her children, Karen Swindler, Dan O'Donnell, Angie (Tim) Casey, Pat (Kathleen) O'Donnell, Mell (Lori) O'Donnell, Tom (Cheryl) O'Donnell, Tim O'Donnell, Mike (Shelly) O'Donnell, Coleen (Tom) Stevenson; 22 grandkids; 31 great grandkids; and seven great great grandkids. Her husband, Mell; son-in-law, Les Swindler; and granddaughter, Claire Stevenson preceded her in death A private family Funeral Mass will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, November 28, 2020. Friends and extended family are invited to watch the Mass via livestream. Please find the livestream link on Polly's tribute wall and share your support and memories with her family at www.stewartbaxter.com under obituaries. Private family burial will follow at Mt. Calvary Cemetery, Cedar Rapids. Arrangements are with Stewart Baxter Funeral & Memorial Services, Cedar Rapids. Donations may be directed to Immaculate Conception Catholic Church, Cedar Rapids.

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  1. Oh Polly! Our boys loved having you as a neighbor when they were growing up. We also appreciated you and your kindness. You are an inspiring Mother. Now you can rest. Jerry and Joan Gillon

  2. Pat, Kathleen and family, our deepest sympathies on the loss of your mom Pat. What an incredible role model you had!! May God’s perpetual light shine upon her. Hugs, Dan & Marcia Banyas

  3. I wish to extend my “heartfelt” sorrow to the O’Donnell Family for their deep loss of their Mom, Polly. May God Our Father grant eternal peace and salvation to Pauline. Please Lord ease the pain and suffering of Pauline’s Family and Friends-Amen

  4. I didn’t know Polly, but know several of her children, what a fantastic Mother she must have been ! And she instilled her morals and values on her children, no doubt about that. So sorry for your family loss. Prayers are being sent and I’m sure God wrapped his arms around her already.

  5. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family as you mourn the loss of your mother/grandmother. We were fortunate to hear of kindness shown by Pauline and your family to our late mother, Lisa Upah. On her behalf, please accept our deepest sympathies. – Anna & Emily Upah

  6. Dear Angie, Tim and Jenny, we are holding you all close in our hearts. Polly will never be forgotten–her love lives on in you!

  7. Polly was one of the most remarkable of women! Her family is her truest testament to her loving work as a Mother. I’ll always remember her smile, and how wonderful it was when she visited just across the street! As Matthew’s Gospel says, “Well done, good and faithful servant!”

  8. Our prayers are with the extended O’Donnell family at the loss of their Mother/Grandmother/Great Grandmother. Knowing many of her children it’s easy to understand how special she was to all. Some people make the world a better place, she was one of them. RIP Polly. Clair & Linda Scott

  9. My sympathy to the O’Donnell in your loss. She was a lovely person and true matriarch who built a loving family. I didn’t realize until I read the obituary that she is from the same area that I am originally from. I attended the church at Armah when I was a child which is also where my parents were married. I wish I had known so we could have chatted about it because I would assume we might have known some of the same people. I had many relatives in that area. My best to you all as you share your loving memories of a true treasure.

  10. Dear Karen and family. So sorry to hear of your loss. Polly is a sweet soul and my mom was blessed to have her in the room next door at Promise House. My mother, Pat, passed away on Nov. 13. We mourn and grieve with you. Mom and Polly are having a reunion in heaven! What comfort to know they are with Jesus. Kim Drischell.

  11. Our thoughts and prayers are with the O’Donnell family. We did not have the good fortune of knowing Pauline, but the obituary gave us a wonderful understanding of the beautiful person that she was. We know the family of Pat and Kathleen … they are wonderful people and we believe that many of the values of Pauline are carried forward in their lives. The world is a better place because of the life that Pauline lived and shared with others. Our prayer is that God will give all the family His Strength, His Comfort, and His Peace at this time of loss!

  12. What a beautiful service for such a beautiful soul. She waited a long time to reach her ultimate goal and is rejoicing in Heaven and sending love to her family from above. Our love to you all- The Doug Lampe Family

  13. To all of the O’Donnell’s: When I think of what it means to truly be a Christian I always think of your mom. She had the purest heart and taught so many of us what unconditional love is. When I think of her it immediately brings a smile to my face. I will cherish my memories of her always. My sympathy and love to you all at this time. Tracy Wilkin Anderson

  14. To the O’Donnells – I am so very sorry for your loss. I knew Polly through my Mom, Vera Conway, and we had many a lunch together on Saturdays in Hiawatha (several years ago). Her energetic and dignified personality made quite an impression. I was so interested to read about her background in the obituary. And what a beautiful picture. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

  15. To the O’Donnell family: Your Mom was the sweetest woman who ever lived. How lucky you were to have such a loving & caring mother/grandmother/mother-in-law. She touched so many lives with her kindness.Towards the end of her life, my mom & I saw her every day when we visited my dad at Hiawatha Care Center. The staff was so good to her there. Even though her memory had faded, she always greeted me with a warm, “Hi, Honey” when I hugged her and somehow I think she remembered me. Fran thought the world of her too. May she rest in peace now that she is with Mell, Sr. for eternity. I will always think of both of your parents fondly. I hope your memories bring you comfort in the days ahead knowing that she had a long & fulfilling life as the matriarch of your family. Love, Stacy Boston

  16. Polly and my Mom Jean were at Hiawatha Care Center. Polly called everyone honey and I remember her beautiful smile. She was a very special lady. You and your family are in my prayers. Kathy W., Madison, WI


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