Mary Patricia Simmons, 81, affectionately known as 'Aunt Pat' by family and friends, died on September 6, 2019. Funeral Mass: 10:30 a.m., Thursday, September 12, 2019, at St. Matthew Catholic Church, followed by burial at Mount Calvary Cemetery. Visitation: 4-6 p.m., Wednesday, September 11, at Stewart Baxter Funeral & Memorial Services, Cedar Rapids with a 4:15 p.m. presentation by the Mercy Nursing Honor Guard.
She is survived by siblings, Bill (Linda) Simmons of Washington, Iowa, and Rose Stoneking of Cedar Rapids; sister-in-law, Barbara Simmons of Clarion, Iowa; and many nieces and nephews. Preceding Mary in death were her parents; grandparents; brother, Richard Simmons; and nephew, Johnny Krumm.
Mary was born on March 22, 1938, to Glen and Eileen (Cashman) Simmons. Eileen died when Mary was 3 years old. Her father was remarried four years later to Sarah Bryant Summer. Mary grew up on a farm and thoroughly enjoyed working side by side with her Dad.
Graduating from Marengo High School, and Mercy School of Nursing, she later earned her Bachelors of Science in Nursing from Mount Mercy. Mary's nursing career involved stints at Mercy Hospital in Cedar Rapids and Oelwein. She also worked in public health nursing, then as a nurse at University of Iowa Hospitals and Clinics. Her final nursing position was with children with profound disabilities; she learned so much from them.
When her sister Rose became a single parent, Mary moved in with her and helped raise her three nieces, Joan Krumm, Janet (Don) Angotti, and Jennifer Stoneking. Mary was a devout Catholic and served on many committees at St. Matthew as well as being a lector and Eucharistic minister.
Her hobbies included rug hooking, bobbin lace, and jigsaw puzzles. Mary also enjoyed bus trips taking in the scenery, long car rides in the countryside, and picnic lunches at Ellis Park by the river and Noelridge Park by the flowers. She liked her monthly meetings at Panera with other retired school nurses.
Mary enjoyed following her nieces' and nephews' sports events, especially the last few years. She thoroughly enjoyed watching her 11 year old great nephew, Milo Hines, playing baseball. Milo was her MVP in every game; win or lose.
Integrity comes to mind when you think of Aunt Pat. She had a 'use your common sense' approach to life and will be missed by all who knew her.
The family would like to thank the doctors and nurses from Hall-Perrine Cancer Center, and Dennis and Donna Oldorf Hospice House of Mercy for their care.
Memorials may be directed to St. Matthew Catholic Church or the Sisters of Mercy.
“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the courage to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference.” Mary had all of these in abundance, but most of all the courage to change things that others thought could not be changed. I was fortunate to work with Mary both at Public Health Nursing, and in the school district. I chose to follow in her footsteps when she retired from the school district, working with handicapped children. Her shoes were hard to fill. She will be greatly missed. Rosemary Berckes
Rose and family. Mary was such a sweet heart, enjoyed seeing her at mass. I would tell Her to behave herself and she would tell me the same. I would tell Rose to try to keep her out of trouble. I will miss her. I know God will take care of her and we will see her someday again. You are in my thoughts and prayers
I love Pat. My sincere condolences to all family members. Barb
May the souls of the Faithful Departed through the Mercy of God, Rest in Peace. #AMDG Frank Felser and Family
Mary was beloved by all of us in her lace guid. We will miss her sensibility as well as her fun side.
You will be dearly missed by all your fellow lacemakers, Mary. Godspeed my friend.
Rest in peace.