Catherine 'Kay' Woods, 81, passed away on November 27, 2015, at Hallmark Care Center in Mount Vernon. Memorial Mass: 10:30 a.m., Friday, December 4, 2015, at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, Mount Vernon. Visitation: 4-7 p.m. Thursday, December 3, 2015, at Stewart Baxter Funeral & Memorial Services, Mount Vernon, with a rosary service at 3 p.m. Burial: Mount Vernon Memorial Cemetery at a later date.
She was born Catherine Christine Maier on June 24, 1934, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania to Frank and Mary Agnes (Heisse) Maier. Kay was raised in Philadelphia, attending and graduating from John W. Hallahan Catholic Girls' High School in 1952. She met Robert 'Bob' Woods after he was honorably discharged from the Navy in 1954. After a whirlwind courtship of 30 days, they were married in Elkton, Maryland, on August 31, 1954. They moved to the family farm south of Mount Vernon, where they would spend their 40 year marriage in partnership, farming and raising their 4 children: Kevin, Carol, Michael and James. Kay worked at the Mount Vernon Community Schools in the Superintendent's office, and also served as the 'Lunch Lady,' and took tickets at all sports events, which she enjoyed greatly. She lost her husband to cancer in 1994, and spent the next 19 years living on the farm, active in the lives of her children, grandchildren, and eventually great-grandchildren. Kay was a lifelong Catholic, active in attending and participating at St. John's Catholic Church in Mount Vernon.
Kay is survived by her four children, 3 of whom live on parcels of the family farm, Kevin (Mary), Carol (Terry) Woods-Boren, and James all of Ivanhoe Road, and Michael (Joleen) of Mount Vernon; 7 grandchildren, Sarah and Lynn Woods (Derek), of Cedar Rapids, Derek (Lori) Boren, Nick (Teressia) Boren, Sean Boren (Brooke), all of rural Mount Vernon, and Dylan Woods and Kyle Woods, who spent much of their childhood living with Kay; Step-grandchildren, Chrissy Swartzendruber (Jim), Erin Rogers, and Lisa Norman; 15 great-grandchildren, Alex and Isabelle McClusky, Madie, Lexie and Rylie Boren, and Caitlyn, Kenzie, Noah, and Ivy Boren, Tyler and Trevor Harapat, Cameron Swartzendruber, Thomas, James and Paisley Cart; Sisters-in-law'a large part of Kay's life for 60 years'Marilynn Overman of Cedar Rapids, and Mickey Woods of Mount Vernon; 12 nieces and nephews, Steve, Nancy and Terry Overman, Doug, Denny and Dave Pitlik, Kelly, Deb, and Sally Gardeman, and Jill, Kenny and Keith Woods; from her Philadelphia roots her brother, and second most important man in her life, Art (Mary) Maier. Also surviving are many nieces, nephews and cousins and their families on the East Coast; and her best friend and co-conspirator in all things, Donna Hotz, of Mount Vernon.
Over the years, several Philadelphia relatives ventured to the unsettled farmland of Iowa, where, at first, they were concerned about Mom having electricity. Rita and Swede Toften and Mary Anne and Kenneth Rocks were the most frequent visitors. Recent visitors, Marianne Maier and Chrissy Sermarini-Kelly, arrived this summer with Kay's brother 'Sonny''a thrilling surprise.
Kay was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Bob; sisters, Mary (Andrew) Crawford, Rita (James) Walsh and Carolyn (William) Stalnecker; brothers and sisters-in-law, Ray Overman, Eddie and Sis Pitlik, Joyce and Leon Gardeman, and Chuck Woods.
We all think our moms are special and, indeed, they are. Kay had her faults, and all who loved her knew them. But there was never a child, neighbor, nor errant son who was not given shelter from the storm when needed, or a grandchild who wasn't spoiled with toys or cookies, because to Gammi Kay, they were special, and they knew it'a great gift in itself. Diets, housecleaning, checkbooks, and finances were an eternal mystery to her, but loving and caring for family, children, and people in general were not. If compassion is the coin of heaven, she died a rich woman indeed.
The family would like to thank Essence of Life Hospice, and especially the staff at Hallmark Care Center who became a second family to Kay while generously caring for her for the past two years. She was surrounded by love, laughter, and endless 'parties.'
Although not originally written by her, in her own perfect Catholic school cursive penmanship (the nuns would be proud), Mom left these words to be included in her obituary:
'There will be a tomorrow that exists without me. When that day arrives, I want this world to have seen greater beauty because I existed. I want my life to have meant something. I want this world to be brighter. I want this world to be happier. I want people to have smiled more, laughed more because I spent time here. I want others to have seen and felt the uniqueness of my spirit and if I accomplished that when my soul does move on and my gift stays here and makes just one ripple, I will look down and I will smile, I will smile wide.'
Memorials may be directed to St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, Mount Vernon Community School Foundation, Mount Vernon Volunteer Fire Association, or Mount Vernon Veteran's Memorial Fund.
Kevin and family, We were so sorry to read in the Gazette on-line of your mother’s passing. We are unable to attend the funeral as we are in Florida but will be with you in thought during this difficult time. Love and prayers with you and your entire family as you celebrate the life of your mother.
Sandy and Greg Ghere
Kay was part of the defining spice of life in Mt. Vernon, and with a smile she’d do the tough job of collecting admission to athletic events. I gladly paid, as her smile was worth it. My condolences to the extended family of Kay.
I am blessed to have known Kay. Often, when I got off work, Kay would still be in the dining room and I would sit at chat with her before going home. Her wit and straightforwardness always made me laugh. Although we staff don’t have “favorites”, if I did, Kay would surely be one of them. My thoughts are with the family at this time.
Kays family I am so glad my mom and yours were friends. especially these last few months they could
cause a bit of mischif at Hallmark. your mom had a really big soft heart and a very catching laugh
and smile. there was also a bit of being ornary in her. my heart is with all of you. thankyou for going
to moms room and telling her yourself. marsha heims
We were very sorry to hear of Kay’s passing. We want to send our condolences to her family. We had church services at Hallmark for many years up until August 1st 2015. I say this because this is where we met Kay. I don’t believe she missed very many services and we became very good friends.. She was a very pleasant and fun person. We have missed seeing her and very sorry to hear of her passing.
Ken and Donna McConaughy
To the Wood’s Family,
Oh how I miss Kay already….she was one of a kind friend and a true friend. You never had to guess where you stood with Kay, she told it like it was. We had so many in – depth and fun conversations. I know she is in heaven with Bob and happy and free of pain.
I will never forget Kay, I loved her. I know you all have fun and special thoughts of her, smile when you think of her and always remember her beautiful smile.
With my sincere sympathy,
Annamae
I went into your room today but you weren’t in there. Just pictures of your family, some of your favorite blankets, and every memory of you remained.. I can still hear your silly laugh, in fact the thought of it made me smile today. I remember the first day I met you and from moment I knew that you would be one of my absolute favorite ladies. I think you told me a time or two that I was a girl after your own heart, I’m pretty sure you said that because we are both sassy, sarcastic, fun, and we say it how it is…I’m sure going to miss our conversations, your contagious laugh, and your vivacious personality. It’s people like you that make my days at work 100 times better.
Always be humble, gentle, and patient, accepting each other in love.
Ephesians 4:2