Judith A. Parmer
November 14, 1958 ~ August 25, 2013
Judith A. Parmer, 54, of Springville, died on Sunday August 25, 2013, from an automobile accident. Family and friends will gather from 1 ' 2 p.m. on Saturday, August 31, 2013, with a memorial service beginning at 2 p.m. at Stewart Baxter Funeral & Memorial Services, Cedar Rapids. Bishop Robert Green will preside. Survivors include her mother, Catherine Ainesworth; daughters, Angel (Eric) Payne, Monica Sykora, and Brianne Mascher; significant other, Chuck Taylor; siblings, Dean (Wendy) Ainesworth, Marla (Guido) Gonzalez, Bill (Sheila) Ainesworth, and Brian (Tracy) Ainesworth; grandchildren, Allie, Megan, Toni, Skye, Hunter, McKayla, Fritz, Rylee, Aadyn, Chirstian, Adina, and Gabriella. Judi was born November 14, 1958, in Davenport, Iowa, the daughter of Harry Theodore Knox and Catherine Ainesworth. She graduated from Mt. Mercy College in 1994 with a bachelor's degree in accounting. Judi worked as an accountant for Cedar Valley Heating & Cooling. She was a member of Redemption Ministries and the Eagles Club. Judi will be remembered for her loving and kind personality. She greatly enjoyed music, always playing the piano and singing and dancing. Her many hobbies included camping, puzzles, playing cards, and cheering for the Pittsburgh Steelers. Above all her family, especially her many grandkids, were most important. They will miss her significantly. She was preceded in death by her father, Ted Knox; grandson, Isaiah Larson; grandparents, Lloyd and Adina Poston; uncle, Ray Poston; and aunts, Donna Poston and Mary Guinn. Memorials may be directed to Bill Ainesworth, 209 9th Avenue, Hiawatha, Iowa 52233.
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Rest in peace Judy
My heart aches for your loss. I hope you can take comfort in the fact that she is with the Lord. She will be forever missed and loved.
RIP Judi!
Angel,Monica, and Brianne,
I am very honored to have met your mom. Her smile could light up a room. I have very fond memories of Judi.
Thoughts and prayers to you all during this very difficult time.
Michelle
To Monica and family so sorry for your loss. If there is anything you need, please call. Prayers and love.
Monica, Angle, Brianne, and the rest of Judy’s family my heart truly goes out to all of you. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Much love to all of you and I wish for the pain to go away.
RIP Judi. You were loved by many and will be greatly missed. God Bless.
Angel and family — I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you are all in my thoughts.
Monica and Toni, We are so sorry for your loss. Monica, you look so much like your mom. Our thoughts, prayers, and of course our love are with you always.
Our thoughts and prayers to your family at this difficult time.
This is not goodbye. This is see you again soon. We love you Judi
To Judi’s family,I was so sorry to hear about Judi,,I last saw her not just two years ago at Marla’s wedding and was so glad I had seen her and gotten a chance to talk with her for awhile-it had been a few years since I had last seen her!
Rest now Judi and we will miss you!
you will be miss, you was a facebook and farmville friend,
My prayers are with the family. I met judi through fb we played fv together. This is like losing a fb family and friend I know the pain you are feeling for I just lost my dad but she is not gone she will always be in your heart and its not good bye for you will see her again at the golden gates
Facebook friend, My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Rest in peace
To Judi’s family i am so sorry for your loss. I couldn’t believe it when i read the post. I will never forgot all the great talks Judi and i had on fb. She will be greatly missed. Rest in Peace Judi i’ll miss you my friend.
Thank y’all for sharing and may you feel the peace and love of our heavenly father during this horrible time in your lives. The Internet can be a wonderful thing, without it I would never have known her. She is missed far and wide, even in south Louisiana.
To the entire family, so sorry for your loss! May you hold onto all the good memories and use each other as support thru this difficult time! Thinking and praying for you all! RIP Judi!
To the entire family,there are no words to help with the pain of losing a loved one so sudden. Cherish all the memories of her over the years and speak of her often! I have many memories of my own of Judi over the years to remember!
RIP Judi
Dearest Monica, Toni and Family: I am so sorry for your loss. Please let me know if there is anything that you need. Love, Kristine
We are so very sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is very hard. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and I am here whenever you need me or anything. I did not know Judith but I know Angel her daughter. Angel is a blessing in my life and her family is too.
Hugs
Cindy Kriegermeier
I only new you from facebook and farmville but concidered you a friend. May you rest easy and watch over your loved ones you will be missed by many.
I am so sorry for your lost
Judith and i were friends and bowler parters she will be missed graetly
Angel and family–I’m so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in my heart and prayers.
I will always miss Judy as a dear friend, Judy she would always tell me, “Sis.Bailey let’s be there for each” other, and I am here to say that she was always there for me to talk and to encourage me and I was there for her anytime she needed someone in her corner or that shoulder thank God for her time here with us, I pray for the family for strength.
Mrs. Cluster Bailey
Judi you were such an amazing woman. Thank you for all you ever did for my family. we love you.
My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Judy will always be remembered.
We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers go out to your family. If you need anything let us know. Love you all!
Monica and Family im so sorry for your loss.i meet Judi a couple years ago when she bowled with you girls on our Saturday Night bowling leauge.Judi you were a loving mom and person you will be missed god bless you and RIP Judi.
R.I.P Judy you will be greatly missed. Thoughts and Prayers go out to the family in this time a grief!!
McKayla~
I am so sorry about your Grandma’s passing. Please know that I send love and prayers to you & your family, today and in the days ahead!!
Hugs!!
Mrs. SE (from Wright Elementary)
Every once in a while someone comes along that just brightens up the life of everyone around them. Judi, you were that someone. You will be dearly missed. But, we will see each other eventually. Thoughts, prayers and condolences go out to her family.
Monica, We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Toni and your family.
Hello Catherine and Family,
I was so shocked to see the death of your beloved daughter Judy.
Only Faith, Family, Friends, Time and Good Memories will ease the pain each of you are feeling.
Again, my deepest sympathy to each of you.
Darlene Schmidt
Judi, you will be missed greatly , You have always been a dear friend. You are all in my thoughts and prayers…
Angel, Monica and family I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you. If you need anything let me know.
Love you all!
When I heard that Judi had passed I instantly felt remorse for everything I never got the chance to apologize for. I truly miss her and wish that I could all take back every unkind word I said. Her death has hit my family hard, not to mention Monica, Angle, and Brianne, along with their children and Judi’s boyfriend. I’m sorry and can’t express my condolences enough. You are all in my prayers and thoughts.
Words can’t express how sad this occassion is. You will be greatly missed just as you are greatly loved, now and forever.
MY DEAR FRIEND JUDI IM NOT GUNNA SAY YOU WERE MY FACEBOOK FRIEND BECAUSE WE BECAME CLOSE THAN THAT WE YOU MADE SUCH AN IMPACT ON ME AND NOT ONLY ME ON MANY OTHERS ALSO… YOU ARE A GREAT WOMEN AND THE HEAVENS HAVE RECEIVE A GREAT ANGEL… IM GOING TO MISS OUR CHATS SEEING YOU COME ON DAY TO DAY THE GREEN DOT NEXT TO UR NAME SO I CAN SAY HI HOW WAS UR DAY AND TO VENT ABOUT HOW MY DAY WAS BUT I DO THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU HAVE TAUGHT ME YOU WERE LIKE A MOTHER <3 BUT I DO ASK YOU THIS ONE LAST THING AND FOREVER ARE YOU READY TO WATCH SOME STEELERS FOOTBALL??? WE ARE GUNNA TAKE NUMBER SEVEN BABY AND YOU GET TO SEE IT FROM THE BEST SEAT IN HEAVEN LOVE YOU JUDI!!!! YOUR FRIEND JUANITA!!
I was so sad to hear about Judi, what a wonderful person she was. She will be missed by so many but, we will all see her again. My Prayers are with all her family and friends.
I was deeply saddened by the news of Judi’s passing. My heart felt condolences to you and your family. Always remember, Judi will never be your past, she is your future, and you will see her again. I heard someone say one time, If your loved-ones are with Jesus, and Jesus is with you, then Judi is not that far away. May God bless all of you. With deepest sincerity. Betty Hewett
We will miss you! Family is a very prize possession in our lifes! Love you!! Deano
Sincerest sympathy and prayers to your family. she is loved by so many and will live forever in our hearts.
Love,
Cozy, Don & Dallas
My dear sister, the love between sisters is a special bond & love, as is the love of our entire family. We never had a chance to tell each other I love you before your physical time on this earth was over, but deep down we both knew that our love for each other was forever. I will miss you so much until we are united once again. Love you sis!
If I only had five minutes the day you passed away,
I would have had time to tell you all the things I needed to say.
I never got to tell you how much you mean to me,
Or that you were the best mom, better than any woman could be.
The last time that I talked to you
I wish I would have known.
I would have said I love you,
and kept you on the phone.
If I only had five minutes,
the morning you passed away,
I’d give you one last hug so tight and see your great big smile.
I’d tell you that I don’t think I could live without you,
not even for awhile.
I’d kiss your cheek and take your hand and tell you it’s okay to go
And tell you that I’ll miss you,
more than you’ll ever know.
But you were gone so quickly,
One last car ride you’d take.
Before you even knew it,
you were standing at heavens gate.
Now God has called upon you,
It’s time to get your wings.
To leave this life behind you,
And enjoy all of heavens beautiful things.
So wait for me in heaven Mom,
Don’t let me come alone.
The day the angels come for me,
Please be there to bring me home.
Mom,
I had to share this it touched me when I read it.
Your Mother is always with you. She’s the whisper of the leaves as you walk down the street. She’s the smell of certain foods you remember, flowers you pick, the fragrance of life itself. She’s the cool hand on your brow when you’re not feeling well. She’s your breath in the air on a cold winter’s day. She is the sound of the rain that lulls you to sleep, the color of a rainbow; she is the Christmas morning. Your mother lives inside your laughter. She’s the place you came from, your first home, and she’s the map you follow with every step you take. She’s your first love, your first friend even your first enemy, but nothing on earth can separate you not time, not space….not even death.
If I could just have one more day! I love you and miss you more than you know!