James W. Gilliam, 79, of Cedar Rapids, formerly of Blairstown, died at home on Sunday, December 22, 2013. A celebration of life will be held 4 - 7 p.m. with a special sharing of memories at 5:30 p.m. on Saturday, January 18, 2014, at American Legion Post 170 in Blairstown. Arrangements are with Stewart Baxter Funeral & Memorial Services, Cedar Rapids.
Survivors include his wife of 58 years, Maybeth; his children, James (Amy Mills) Gilliam of Des Moines, Iowa, Nancy (Richard) Andresen of Wakonda, South Dakota, Joseph (Jodie) Gilliam of Tipton, Iowa, John (Amy VanCleve) Gilliam of Mesa, Arizona, and Jerry (Kelly Galiher) of Iowa City, Iowa; and siblings, Sally (Richard) Acquistapace of Weed, California, and Jeannie (Bob) Barnes of Willows, California. Also surviving are 14 grandchildren; 20 great grandchildren; four sisters-in-law; a brother-in-law; special niece, Cari Vargason Minton; special nephew, Shelby Vargason; many other nieces and nephews; and his 'fishin' buddy', Isaiah Minton.
Jim was born January 21, 1934, in Cyril, Oklahoma, the son of Joe D. and Sadie (Wheeler) Gilliam. He graduated from Weed High School in Weed, California in 1951, and enlisted in the US Navy in 1952. He served at Point Mugu Naval Air Station in Oxnard, California, and then aboard the aircraft carrier, USS Lexington. Jim was honorably discharged in 1956. On March 7, 1955, he married Luzerne and Blairstown area native, Mary E. 'Maybeth' Baker in Cypress, California. After his Navy service, he worked for in the oilfields for Standard Oil of California, and then in 1959, he joined the apprenticeship program with the Lathers' Union in California. He moved to Iowa in 1968, and continued his trade as a lather until retiring in 1994.
In 1989, he and Maybeth, along with three of their children, formed Professional Wall Builders and later was one of the founding partners in Serrano Drywall Supply Company in Iowa City. He was also a member of the Blairstown American Legion Post 170 and the Carpenters Union Local 166 in the Quad Cities.
Jim loved fishing, hunting, and watching and coaching youth baseball. Upon his retirement, his bucket list was to attend a baseball game in every one of the Major League ballparks. Although he did not reach that goal, he was able to visit 23 of them before the old ballparks were torn down and the new ones built. For the past 20 years, Jim and Maybeth spent their winters in Arizona, where he loved the desert and eagerly looked forward to their visit each year. He especially enjoyed showing his children and grandchildren around the state when they would visit.
He was preceded in death by his parents; three brothers, Charles Davis, Jack Gilliam, and Joe Dee Gilliam; and his mother-in-law, Bernice Baker. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to the Wounded Warrior Project or a charity of the donor's choice.
So sorry for your lost I always really enjoyed it when I was a round him, he was a great person, Dan Callan
I wish to pay my condolences not only to my Aunt Maybeth and her children, my cousins, but I also wish to say that I’m sorry for our loss of my Uncle Jim to the whole Gilliam clan and anyone else related or affiliated. Strength,kindness and humorous are three descriptives that I associate my Uncle Jim with! Thank you
Nancy and family.
Sorry to hear of the loss of your father. Just know I am thinking of you during this time. Take care!
We have so many great memories of good times with Jim and Maybeth and are so grateful that our friendship was so special. Such a wonderful family and our
love to you all.
He will be missed I know I loved him. He was the greatest. And so kind. Prayers go out to you guys love you bunches.
As family to Cari and grandparents of Uncle Jim’s fishin’ buddy, we send our sincere and heartfelt sympathy to Aunt Mabeth and family. Our thoughts and prayers remain with you.
Hi Maybeth and Family;
Our condolences to you and the Family. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
CNN Jim
I met Jim the day I married Tom De Coster, the youngest son of Jim and Maybeth’s lifelong friends, Paul and Joan De Coster. Ours was one of four wedding receptions being held at the Red Lion in Santa Barbara. It just so happened that Elizabeth Taylor was getting married for the umpteenth time the following day at Michael Jackson’s ranch nearby, so as part of their media coverage, CNN had sent a camera crew and reporter to the Red Lion to interview the newly married couples. Our interview lasted several minutes, but when the story aired on CNN, only a short snippet was shown. However, they did include footage of the moment I met Jim and he gave me a congratulatory kiss on the cheek. Tom joked that Jim got more air time than he did and nicknamed him “CNN Jim.” I remember Jim later laughing and saying something about having to come all the way to Santa Barbara to become famous. It has always been special to have had that moment preserved on tape, but now that video is a treasure to me–the first of many wonderful memories of Jim. I’ll never forget him. xoxo
as a friend of the family I’m so sorry for your loss. Remembering Jim as a little league coach and will miss him coming in the station. He will be greatly missed by all.
Maybeth and Family,
We are so sorry to hear about Jim. He will be truly missed. He was one of the nicest persons I know.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
We are so very sorry for your loss.
Jerry, I am so very sorry for your families loss,although Heavens gain, I know the heartbreak. God Bless you and your family.
Love
Greer
Our Deepest Sympathy to the Family
Marybeth and kids-we are so sorry to hear about Jim. He was a great guy and a true friend not only to Anita and me but to our whole family. I have so many great memories and hope to share a few at Jim’s memorial.
Maybeth, I just heard about your losing Jim. I always looked forward to your return in the spring and being my neighbors. I know how much both of you enjoyed watching the Cubs and I’m glad that I watched the All-Star game with you this summer before you moved! I’m truly sorry that I didn’t visit you and Jim in your new home this fall. I know that Jim was a loving husband and enjoyed being with family and friends. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
My husband and I have been trying to locate Jim for awhile and we’re saddened to find out about his passing. Jim worked with my husband who was an apprentice carpenter in St. Joseph Mo. and Jim taught him so much and my husband has so much respect and admiration for him beyond words. He instilled a sense of self worth and work ethic that my husband carries with him everyday.. We have a lot of fond memories maybe we can share someday. Your husband , father , grandpa was truly one of those people who leave a mark on the world. Please call sometime….816-294-4090. Again we are deeply sorry for your loss. Mike & Cindy Martin.